If there is someone seriously contemplating an exit short blogs about living are not the place to look - a professional seriously needs to be called. Said I Said I Why Tell me oh We're born the same day We even. In the end though, it is acceptance that has helped me the most. Often, people are grateful for the struggles in their life because it’s what makes them stronger. Finally, she ends her life (portrayed in a manner that has been criticized for being overly descriptive and suggestive to the viewing audience). Don’t hide this part of yourself from those who love you; let them help you and tell you that they want you to stick around. A loving relationship can be an oasis in uncertain times, but nurturing it requires attention, honesty, openness, vulnerability, and gratitude. Insanely, we know the mentally ill among us are ill because we are reacting to a crazy-making, mixed-messaging insane capitalistic, corporate, rabidly individualistic culture, the healthy response being suicide. Her sojourn on earth will be brief. Highly detailed, personal, specific things that occurred in their life. Reply, We have the same pain in our hearts. Why? More than I'd like, more than you do it makes THEM feel good. If those that care about them can't be happy for the end of their suffering, I'd argue that they didn't really feel empathy about it in the first place and their desire for that person to stay alive is purely selfish. When you have no job, nofamily, friends, or anyone who care, what is the point? Stay the night most beautiful and precious new soul that G‑d had created. He was grown up without mother. When time after time you try and fail and feel like shit, you don't want to bealso feeling guilty about not feeling thankfull you were born or your suffering is just a lesson. As an aside to this, you people really need to get a grip on how dangerous those suicide hotlines are for people on the edge. When a loved one passes away, we feel we have lost Reply, Why do good people die young or early ?A) I miss my mom very very much, may god take care of her. The risk of suicide increases dramatically when kids and teens have access to firearms at home, and nearly 60 percent of all suicides in the United States are committed with a gun. Everyday the world tells us we should be something or someone else other than who we are. Reply, So my question is what if you're a good person like most people always say very good things about me. souls like this one can transform darkness into light. Reply, It's very hard for me since I missed my younger brother :( He went to the US and in spite of staying there for just about a year and half , made such a huge group of friends that the funeral home was flooded and my parents phone wouldn't stop ringing, there wasnt a dry eye during his eulogy, why did he die young This means the more a person can fit into the prescribed life, the less they suffer. I know this sounds very arrogant but I'm being honest here. “This too shall pass.” Your problems are just temporary and probably won’t be important in five years. Joni Eareckson Tada: When Is It Right to Die? It's not fair. One other thing, I did a past life regression, the most amazing experience, saw myself as a Union soldier in the Civil War, then as a farm hand dying of a heart attack about 30 yeas later out in a field clearing rocks on a warm spring day, I knew then that we are born, and live, and die, many times, some lives are good and easy, some are terribly hard. Trust in God; trust also in me” (John 14:1). Finding this is hard But I'm scared to show how much it means Great! Be strong, you can do this. VERY VERY CLEVER. Number 4, for example. earth for a limited time? This is why people take their lives; because articles like this practically encourage this by flaunting that life could be good but these people don't have that and want to die more. Let her descend to earth and shine her light there.". Mark 8:31 Then Jesus began to tell them that he, the Son of Man, would suffer many terrible things and be rejected by the leaders, the leading priests, and the teachers of religious law. They are thinking of SPECIFIC things and triggers. He might as well not send them for us to grieve behind which is worst than death The content of this field is kept private and will not be shown publicly. spiritual being could be expected to survive such a physical world. In fact, I tell people IF there is a hell, it would be me duct taped to a chair and having to watch every horrible, selfish, mean, ugly thing I did in my life on a tape loop. My point is his goodness and death is not in vain. Whatever it is that makes you laugh, do it. Such I just don't believe in working until you die or die working. This reminds me of a darker moment in my life, of which there are far to many to recall. Remember that problems are temporary but so are thoughts and feelings. How much of this painful "gift" are we supposed to endure? This woman who wrote this should know depression is a very real illness that actually needs treatment and can be helped and not this bullcrap! While the episodes of pain may have limited periods of reduction or relief, I hope you can find and grow those perhaps all-too-infrequent respites or "oases," the times when someone listens, can share a laugh...or even a beer. WE NEED HUMAN CONTACT - FRIENDS - LOVE - CARING - NOT IDEAS - TO SURVIVE THE ENDLESS THE CRICES - THE ONGOING EVER GROWING SUFFERING AND THE PAIN - WE DEAL WITH DAILY. Interestingly it seems you have unwittingly (in the most ignorant sense) provided a key reason why so many never seek therapy or for many that do, why they end up with a "14th reason". There are reasons to live, not to be interviend during a crisis. For vague, perhaps “live for that sliver of sunlight through a pane of glass, or that rainbow in a fountain”. YOU BELIEVE EVERYTHING - BUT BELIEFS ARE NOTHING BUT VAPOURS - GHOSTS - PHANTOMS - IDEAS AND THOUGHTS THAT KEEP YOU AFLOAT PLAYING GOD IN YOU YOUR FAVOURITE FAIRYTALE KINGDOM. There is no rhyme or reason to this random airheaded laundry list, except for the presumptuousness that someone cares enough to learn, to live through new experiences, has faith (and gives no reason why one should have faith in life and in others in it), to get to know ourselves etc. The voluntarily taken life, particularly at the young end of the age spectrum, perhaps for the reason “I had enough,” may be overly focused on recent pain, and does not get the opportunity to know what lies ahead and get to experience “what could have been.” We are all here but a speck of time. I know this, I've been in this situation time and time again, not once did a hospital or a counselor actually help, most of the time it only got worse. Reply. This is one gift I won't be bestowing on any potential beings. Reply, The point of this article is not that all good people die young, it's that when someone that is good does die young, we can look back at their life and see how much they truly accomplished in such a short time. Besides, you never know how your life may turn out. Since Hannah could not find her own reasons, I'll leave you with my "13 Reasons Why...to Live.". she is on earth is a blessing.". After all God works in mysterious ways! Local: 704-401-2432 I'd like to try TMS and Ketamine infusions, but they are expensive. remain in heaven. Dig deeper into yourself to explore why you’re feeling so empty and numb inside. And remember all the people in relationships who hate each other's guts and are miserable isn't unhelpful. (My best decade was the 7th.) But I don’t have to understand why. Looking forward to that. All rights reserved. People do not necessarily love life and may suffer depression, wish to end their suffering or simply do not see the point of living. On average, we get 71 trips around the sun. Whenever depression sits in, then psychological and/or psychiatric treatment is necessary. If life, which includes heartbreaks and pain, is a gift, then I don't want it, I want to end it, I just broke the mirror in my bathroom and I'm about to slit my throat nobody understands the fucking pain. countering that the world needs such souls more than anything. In this case, you could say the door feels like a barrier. I don't know. she is on earth is a blessingG‑d then turned to the second group and asked, understand. It is not may place to command, "Don't give up hope!" If not, there would be no forum or responses here. We have to come to a point where we say, “I don’t know why my life looks this way. We're all going through it. Chris, I am all in favor of "death with dignity," and while we had no choice getting shat into this world, I concur we should have a choice on how we leave it. Reply, I'm so sorry for your loss. Where is the justice? grateful for the very fact that they were given to us in the first place. Having read some of the opinions , I am inclined to be negative about the concept of life. Even more, who knows, perhaps you have family or friends that are willing to be there for you, they just need to be reached out to. listened to the two opinions -the first group of angels arguing that this Finding some pharmaceutical MDMA to take in a therapeutic setting would be nice, but I don't live in California. Your suggestion of getting help is great — for people that have a lot of money or insurance that covers it. It is our challenge to find beauty, even—and especially—when the opposite occurs. When I died in that life I was grateful, that life had been so damn hard it was a release, a peace, a gift. Why? Your reasons to live are so far removed from my 49 years of life experience I can barely comprehend how out of touch you must be with people suffering with depression and the horrendous torment of wanting to take your own life. WE WHO LIVE IN THIS MUD WORLD - KNOW ITS REALITY.IDEAS DON'T WORK - DON'T SOLVE ANYTHING. Humans are Can't think of anymore.... so looking for some for myself. "there are friends that are more than happy to be that shoulder to lean on - I have been that friend myself" = I have asked it hundreds — maybe thousands — of times during my lifetime, often after learning of the kind of sudden tragedy that took your nephew’s life. If you enjoyed this article, we encourage you to distribute it further, provided that you comply with Chabad.org's, Every day that You wanting to kill yourself is a healthy response to the sickness of the culture you live in. but, as that Last Day will inevitably come, I'd encourage you (dare you?) issue themselves, they needed a Higher Authority. Why this happened to us. But they can never control who you are. My son passed and he was 23. I miss both of them so much! That quote makes no sense because there is no sense living if my life is fucked up so I should just die and if there isn't a good reason to live then I'll just be down in the ground. 'Cause I need this more than I knew Because if nothing worked we'd be dead right? For one, suicidal people are probably not jsut thinking about the vague concepts of death. Now that I also have rheumatoid arthritis it hurts, physically, all the time, the only thing that takes the pain away is narcotics and sleep, waking up hurts, so why not just go to sleep keep on sleeping? THOSE THERE ARE LOST.IT IS FROM THIS LOFTY PLAIN THESE ALIENS OFFER TO US THEIR WISDOM AND GIVE US ADVICE ABOUT LIVING REAL LIFE DOWN HERE. THOSE WHO ESCAPE THE ADVENTURE LIKE YOU WHO NEVER JUMP IN BUT ESCAPE INTO AN ELEVATED UNTOUCHABLE IVORY TOWER NEVER "KNOW" - MISS LIVING LIFE - YOUR LIFES.YOU THINK IT THROUGH. But when I'm feeling like ending my own life, which is frequent and current, the world looks ugly to me, music becomes an incomprehensible irritant, my children strangers. Who in blazes are you to tell people their life is not their own? Some feel that the show encourages teens to think about suicide as a viable option to deal with their problems while others feel it spotlights the issues of youth suicide, bullying, and sexual assault which plague our society. [Verse 2] Maybe being held accountable in some public fashion is what it will take for you to recognize the disservice you do both to your profession and to those that are in need of said professions help with this kind of useless material. Who Minds The Children? "She is too pure, too holy to face the ugliness of the Finding this is hard But i hope you will remember that, where ever they are they wish the best for you, and they believe in you. "Here, feel even worse about how nobody gives a damn about you, specifically". He was a very divine soul, who was very loving, caring, helpful. Some people have had such pain and suffering, they question living. Trust me, I came across this whilst suicidal and I know for a damn fact this is useless. Although I can’t speak for everyone as my situation is such that although I do occasionally think of it, I don’t believe I’m suicidal, it would still help to have advice that sounds more applicable. Although his life may seemed short lived, it sounds like he accomplished a lot more than many! That's akin to telling them to live as a slave and accept it and to be bound in some non-existent way to how they impact others by their own decision to stop being unhappy...and you don't think that would be enough in itself to push someone over the edge? I'd love people posting on there. To even think some of the garbage in your list shows depressed people just how little you overpriced "professionals" actually care at all. Dad: The Collection. Shortly after meeting her she was diagnosed with Cancer and given 6 months to live. If we don't live it, we won't know what we’re missing. The choice is accepting you wanting to kill yourself is an appropriate response to living in a pathological culture or not. Reply, Human souls are not inherently evil. This is a field I have been disappointed in time and time again. Some feel that the show encourages teens to think about suicide as a viable option to deal with their problems while others feel it spotlights the issues of youth suicide, bullying, and sexual assault which plague our society. On the other hand, if you’re a teen whose being cyberbullied to kill yourself, ignore them and don’t let them win! My advice to you? And it doesn't help that I have depression Either. Juice wrld was trying to step away from the drugs. First, this is an article that explains general reasons why to live. Find a way out of your pain. I hope you have heard of C S Leis (Narnia). opposite: "Indeed this soul glows with a unique divine glow. Most people find that they really don’t want to die, they just want their pain to end. Child : dad, why do good people die early? Death is waiting for each of us anyway; why call on it before our time. Death is forever. Stack that on having felt invisible to everybody I've ever known beginning with my parents, so, what for? Kobe was a inspiration and help to everybody who wanted it. For example, your brother was an amazing person that changed a lot of people perspectives of life for the better. It centers around a girl in high school who kills herself after feeling discouraged and hurt by traumatic circumstances. Nothing lasts forever. creation was that the lowly world be refined by the good deeds of mortal human I lost my beloved son Sai raghavendar on 27 Nov 2017. The majority of youth confront the idea of death and, at some point or another, fantasize about how they will die. The Underground Harmony of Skateboarding Culture. You witness this by the huge crowd in that funeral home. You may not want others to know that you are suicidal because you feel it’s a sign of weakness or you may be embarrassed — but reach out for help anyway because you are not alone. He suffered from cancer for 19 months and the memory of his agony does not go away. just fuck this shit. In the meantime, 'Cause I need this more than I knew BUT INTELLECTUAL ACTIVITY IS A TRICK THAT KNOWS NOTHING ABOUT REAL LIFE - IT EVADES THE PHYSICAL EMOTIONAL CONUNDRUM OF LIVING THROUGH A REAL LIFE.LIVING IN YOUR MIND - FIGURING IT ALL OUT- THINKING ABOUT IT- YOU DEAL IN IDEAS - WHICH KEEPS YOU SAFE FROM FEELING THIS PHYSICAL MATERIAL EXISTENCE.THE COLD MIND - *brains feel nothing"- only "hearts do" YOUR DWELLING PLACE RELIEVES YOU OF GROWING A HEART - FEELING. Call 1-800-273-8255 or call 911 in case of emergency. YOU HAVE SUCCUMBED TO TO MOST PROFOUND WEAKNESS WE AS ANIMALS CAN SURRENDER TO. Psych Central does not provide medical or psychological Every day is a new day to recreate yourself. I lost my lovely only child at the age of 25 in a car accident. OTOH, we get this time-limited offer, called Life, the "normal" length of which may be unpredictable. The good can become bad and the bad can become good. I have an opinion based on fact and personal experience. Don't worry about what you haven't yet done or what you aren't—focus on the life experiences you have had, and the values you stand for. 13 Reasons Why You Should Never, Ever Move To Maine. Alcohol has saved my life a thousand times, takes the edge off, gets me through til tomorrow, so far. Try to find some meaning in life, even if that meaning is deciding how to think about your inner experience differently. Dad : when you’re in a garden which flower do you pick? There’s a stigma to suicide which is perpetuated by the silence surrounding it. No, they would not. Very weak list, mainly for its lack of substance and presumptuousness. And an invitation to suicide, it would seem. to have such heavenly guests come down on earth. IT IS THE WORST TRAP WE DEAL WITH. "Indeed, it is sad to send such an immaculate Please tell me why I should continue? But I'm a bit too functional for that. YOU HAVE ELEVATED YOURSELF BY THINKING - AND HAVE DEVELOPED A WISDOM TO VIEW THAT LOWER REALM CLEARLY. I said I am sure I can get you proof from the Rabbi who wrote this! A BATTLE BEGINS WITHIN US - BECOMING ONE'S OWN ENEMY IS A DEAD ENDED PROCESS. Reply, How can this be proven as in the Torah? Dad : Same like, God to his loved ones. That's why I'm so grateful for the internet like this, even if it does suppress emotions a bit more than in person. © Copyright, all rights reserved. So sad all they needed was ............? I get that it may be a play on words, but it's a gross misrepresentation at best. Just like courtesy is contagious. I believe suicide is always to end the pain, therefore it is always logical. This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. We are left with a gaping hole in our heart, and we often Every day that TOO MUCH THINKING! are blessed to have such beautiful souls in our lives. More than I'd like to a brilliant soul will not need long to fulfil her mission. His death was ruled natural. THE FALSE TEMPTATION THAT EGO IS GOD. Sin separates us from God — but by His death and resurrection Jesus Christ took away our sins and has opened heaven’s door for us.